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那些成年后与父母关系疏远的子女,都发生了什么?父母们该警惕了

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Original title: What happened to children who were alienated from their parents in adulthood? Parents should be alert

When parents are working hard to raise their children, the biggest expectation is that they can be taken care of when they are old, and live a happy life around their knees. However, in real life, many children are alienated from their parents in adulthood, and even the family is not willing to return. For example, Xiaobian’s friend Xiaofeng.

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Xiaofeng is my college classmate. Since I met her, she found that she rarely went home. Other students are looking forward to returning home during the Chinese New Year holiday, have a good time to play, and eat delicious food that parents have done by themselves. However, every year in the New Year, Xiaofeng is the person who does not like to go home the most. She is always dragged to the school on the last day of school to leave home, and is also back to school at the earliest time allowed by the school. I feel that she is simply avoiding her own home.

After graduating from college, Xiaofeng found a job in the city where our university is located. Since then, she has rarely returned home, and she has been alone for the New Year. I once asked her why, she did not elaborate. However, from some of my usual words and deeds, I guess this is the reason: that is the parents' eccentricity.

Xiaofeng once said that coming to college is an opportunity to fight for himself. There is also a younger brother in Xiaofeng’s family. The younger brother is very bad at learning, but his parents are forcing him to go to school. And her grades are very good, but my parents want her to graduate to work and earn money for her brother to study. Xiaofeng knows that the conditions at home are not good, but she does not want to give up the opportunity to change her own destiny. For rural girls, if they don’t go to school, the only way out is to marry after working in the field for a few years. There is no other chance.

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xx每次她的父母都希望她辍学,这对她来说是最不舒服的时候。为了上学,她曾经在父母面前哭过,要求父母给自己一个机会,并向父母保证,大学毕业后,他们一定会把前五年赚来的钱给父母。在得到父母的同意之前。

这些年来,小凤已经支付了月薪,给家里留下了所有必要的开支。她与父母的关系可能只与金钱有关系。说到家庭,她总是避免这样做。

这是小凤的故事。在现实生活中,仍有一些人与父母有关系。可能是因为其他事情。例如,想逃避父母的控制。

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我的朋友小伟是一个非常性格的女孩,非常孩子气。小伟很少和父母沟通。如果她的父母不打电话给她,她就不会打电话回家。小伟说,当他还是个孩子的时候,爸爸对自己的纪律非常严格。如果她不听,那就是脾气。在这样的生活环境中,她觉得自己几乎已经无法呼吸。在很小的时候,她的理想就是逃离父母,离开家乡,住在一个无人知晓的遥远的地方。

当她是成年人时,她很少回家。对于其他人来说,这个家庭可能是一个温暖的港湾,但对她来说,它已成为回忆的回忆。

俗话说,父母和孩子之间的关系是父母看着他们孩子的背影,然后越走越远。在孩子成年后,他最终将离开家并离开他的父母。这是必要的。然而,现实的距离可以很远,但灵魂的距离可以缩小。如果你的孩子离开家后疏远了他自己的关系,那么父母真的必须反思他们是否做错了什么。

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亲爱的朋友们,您现在与父母有多少联系?有异化吗?欢迎留言交流!

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