Original title: What happened to children who were alienated from their parents in adulthood? Parents should be alert
When parents are working hard to raise their children, the biggest expectation is that they can be taken care of when they are old, and live a happy life around their knees. However, in real life, many children are alienated from their parents in adulthood, and even the family is not willing to return. For example, Xiaobian’s friend Xiaofeng.
Xiaofeng is my college classmate. Since I met her, she found that she rarely went home. Other students are looking forward to returning home during the Chinese New Year holiday, have a good time to play, and eat delicious food that parents have done by themselves. However, every year in the New Year, Xiaofeng is the person who does not like to go home the most. She is always dragged to the school on the last day of school to leave home, and is also back to school at the earliest time allowed by the school. I feel that she is simply avoiding her own home.
After graduating from college, Xiaofeng found a job in the city where our university is located. Since then, she has rarely returned home, and she has been alone for the New Year. I once asked her why, she did not elaborate. However, from some of my usual words and deeds, I guess this is the reason: that is the parents' eccentricity.
Xiaofeng once said that coming to college is an opportunity to fight for himself. There is also a younger brother in Xiaofeng’s family. The younger brother is very bad at learning, but his parents are forcing him to go to school. And her grades are very good, but my parents want her to graduate to work and earn money for her brother to study. Xiaofeng knows that the conditions at home are not good, but she does not want to give up the opportunity to change her own destiny. For rural girls, if they don’t go to school, the only way out is to marry after working in the field for a few years. There is no other chance.